“Folks who never do any more than they get paid for, never get paid for any more than they do”
― Elbert Hubbard
So forgive me but it BOTHERS me when grown ups ask for everyone to help them do this that and the other and they aren't helping themselves, I find VERY distributing, and even worse if you have kids, what are you teaching them? to be lazy and depend on others to get them out of sticky situations? FIND a way, figure out a way you BUST YOUR BUTT to make ends meet and take care of your responsibilities as an adult, it sucks but you have to do it and you can, stop complaining about what you don't have and use what you DO have, we didn't have much at all but we used ALL we had and we live a comfortable life right now! I don't work for ANYONE but myself SO I have to push each and everyday to get on MY grind and do any and everything I MUST.
Today stop making BS excuses and stop crying and stop waiting on someone to pull you out of the ditch you are in, PULL YOURSELF OUT! There are no reasons why you cannot do it! If we did it with two kids, no money and basically no resources, then YOU can do it! Figure out a way, there is ALWAYS a way out!