So today I talked to my mom (like I usually do) and our conversation today was about control or the lack thereof. I told my mom that I noticed a pattern that I run into people often who seem to be upset and the main reason for so much hostility is because things aren't going their way. They don't have control over things and that is what they want BUT can't realize that is what they DON'T have.
You see we cannot control things. We can't control what happens and we cannot control what others do but the one thing we CAN control we allow to get away from us. So what is the one thing we can control? Our attitude.... Our thinking....
If you wake up in the morning and you think negative thoughts before anything else you will look at the glass as half empty. Instead try finding something to smile about first thing in the morning. Something that you have to look forward to for that day and hang on to that positivity and allow it to carry your mood all day! Be thankful for the fact that you can determine your mood and you do have control over something and you can ALWAYS have a great day! A wonderful day! A highly motivated and inspired day! Get happy find a happy place and put yourself there and dont allow others to tear the walls down in that happy place!
This way.... You can ALWAYS BE HAPPY!
Dawn aka Javi is a Super Cool 32 year old wife and homeschooling mother to 2 young boys and now one new baby girl!!